It happens on almost every double visit.
Halfway through the rep's call, the doctor turns to the manager. A question, a comment, sometimes just a look.
And the manager answers. Politely, helpfully, and for the next five minutes the call belongs to the manager.
I have done it myself. It feels like support. It is not.
- Three things happen when the manager takes over:
- The doctor learns that the manager is the person to talk to.
- The rep learns to wait for rescue.
- And after the call, there is nothing to coach, because the call you watched was yours.
- What I try to do instead:
- Stand two steps behind, out of the doctor's eyeline.
- When the doctor turns to me, smile and turn back to the rep.
- Keep every thought for the debrief.
The one exception: if something inaccurate or unsafe is said about a product, I step in, briefly and politely. That is not coaching. That is responsibility.
Everything else can wait for the cafe table after the call.
Staying silent is harder than it sounds. But the rep's call, with all its rough edges, is the only thing worth coaching.
“Every sentence you add in the call is one less thing you can coach after it.”

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